To my early Fetlife friends

Dear Fet friends,

for quite a few of you, my business approach may come as a surprise. Fet grew beyond my control. Anyone who has read my Fet profile knows I have an Arabic surname, Spanish nationality, that I am a woman. This puts me 3-0 down in the "real" world. I enjoy my real-life work, unfortunattely I have a eager salary. I don't have a wealthy family, no friends that spoil me (I do not want that!!), I don't have any inheritances upfront. I have to take care of myself from zero. That is why Findom is explicitly mentioned in my Fet profile.

Fet costs me a great deal of energy, a lot of organization, frequent reschedule, cancellations, a mess in my kitchen, too often far below a fair price. Even negotiating "free sessions". I cannot keep up any longer. Therefore: this website. I will have very little interaction on Fet any longer. BDSM was and will be my passion. You are still very welcome in my appartment, in a way that is sustainable for me.

Love and happiness to all of you,

Azar